Fish Tales Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 my mum died today, wasnt a shock as she was terminally ill, yet I am in shock. Both my parents died in the last 5 years, hurts so much to know I have spoken to her for the last time. Ya just never appreciate people enough, we get so caught-up in lifes crap that doesnt mean a damn half the time. The whole thing has left me so reflective, but life goes on. Mum died 10 hours ago, have allready arranged the funeral, and tomorrow go clear out her possessions. Where is the dignity in death, or is dignity for the living? Bloody cops spent 2 hours at mums place because yesterday her doctor gave her an injection, the mungrel wants to cover his ass and refused to sign a death certificate. So now mum needs an autopsy. No fuckin way she wanted that, and its dragging out the whole thing for no good reason. Felt like it was a crime seen, 2 cops, their radios braodcasting w/e shit for us to hear, and the pricks made us take all her jewellery off before they searched her body for more so the contractors couldnet be liable for stolen jewellery alligations. Where the fuck is dignity is all this, and that is my mum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shock_And_Awe Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 I'm very sorry to hear that Greg. A very tough time for and your family. My condolences. Mark. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
narf_ Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 sorry to hear about that and my condolences Thats what i hate when some one dies people flock in like vultures Was talking to a client today and she had to go to a funeral recently where the deceased had a request that there pillow be put with them to rest. His wife done that and afterwards went to sort out the bankdetails. Turns out he went in before hand unknown to all and emptied his account so they went to court to get him dug up and turns out his pillow had 35k in it :o what is the world comming too these days :x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ric Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 firstly, my condolences to you and your family unfortunately there is no dignity in death, only the immediate pain that their loss brings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super Moderator stuba Posted February 26, 2008 Super Moderator Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry for your loss mate. It's a tough time to go through, day by day and a couple of rums helps. all the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johns-Arcade Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Very sorry to hear of your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Regards, Johns-Arcade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
domehead Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 very very sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spacies Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry to hear that mate. I hope things get better for you real soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bwodie Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 My thoughts are with you and your family Greg If there is anything I can do at all, let me know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nigelicious Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry to hear mate :( To these people it becomes a job, and it's sad, because they lose sight of the compassion that should be shown to those grieving Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skybeaux Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry to hear the bad news Greg. Best regards Ken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators Arcade King Posted February 26, 2008 Administrators Share Posted February 26, 2008 Yeah never easy to know what to say in these situations when dealing with vultures. Sorry to hear about your loss :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LOTR4U Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Wow Greg, So sorry to hear that. My heart bleeds for you dude having only lost my grandfather just recently I can't even imagine what it must be like to loose a mother. Also I am touched that you would share this with us guys on the site. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Pinny Parlour Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 ultra bummer. Sorry mate. I'll quote Ric as I couldn't write it any better: <quote> unfortunately there is no dignity in death, only the immediate pain that their loss brings. </quote> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GEMINI Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry to hear of your loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super Moderator WOKA Posted February 26, 2008 Super Moderator Share Posted February 26, 2008 Death should be a natural and personal thing.. Its a shame that the bum fight continues when all you want to do is make peace, remember quietly and find some reconcile. My thoughs are with you, and I wish you well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Railways Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 My thoughts are with you at this sad time and I know it doesn't mean much to you now but after having lost my Mum 2 years ago to cancer it will get easier going but hardly a day doesn't go by when I don't remember her but they are all fond memories. My condolosences to you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
felixthadog Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 My condolences on the loss of your mother Greg. Matthew Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RetroBorg Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry for your loss Greg. Phil Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lien_Zed Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Sorry to hear of the loss. I can understand exactly where your coming from. My mum died in 1995, and my Dad died in 2003. If you need someone to talk to, just give me a yell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gav Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 My condolences to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish Tales Posted February 26, 2008 Author Share Posted February 26, 2008 Thankyou guys! Cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candyflip Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Condolences on your loss... the pain will subside, but your good memories of her will always be there. Take comfort in that at least. cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syzlack Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Take it easy mate, Its never easy, but try to remember the good times to get through the tough times. I dont have many blood relatives around any more but I do have very fond memories of them to remember them by. Regards, Phil. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Staypuft Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Greg, Sorry to hear about your mum. I hope seeing a few pages worth of messages from us will add up to "something". Mr_S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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